Make Wealth Flow Towards You!

How to make money run after you (Part 23)

Posted by on Oct 18, 2012 in Business Management, Career Management, Personal growth | 0 comments

“The Wealthy Are Masters Of Wealth Attraction”


In the previous article, I talked about how the Wealthy are valuable in the eyes, hearts and minds of as many people as possible. If you have not read that article yet, or even the first 22 articles, I strongly recommend signing up for the “Wealth Plan” so I can email you my previous articles from the very start.


In this article, I want to go deeper in my talk about how the wealthy create value for themselves and the people around them which inevitably make them “Masters” of attracting wealth.


Everyone Has The Power of Attraction, But Not Everybody Attracts The Right Thing.


In my life, I have dealt with many kinds of people, and what I have noticed is that all people, without exception have the power of attraction. The question is, what do they attract?


Most people attract the wrong things in their life. Most people will attract misery and distractions because they attract people who bring them down. The wealthy on the other hand, have a “special kind” of attraction, they attract wealth and prosperity, because they attract people who bring them up.


A Simple “Test” Of Who You Attract


Do you have this as your normal day to day scenario?


(1) When someone calls you over the phone, or emails you or “bumps” into you in the grocery store (or wherever you may be), they almost always bring cheer, calm, serenity, peace and more often than not, they bring opportunities for you (and them) to become wealthier?




(2) When someone reaches out to you (phone, email, bumps into you) they almost always bring sorrow, stress, anxiety, worry, fear and more often than not, they bring you down from a state of happiness, to a state of misery?


If it is the first, then you are on the right path to wealth, if it is the second, then you are having a lot of trouble achieving wealth in your life right now, or at the very least, downright miserable.


The good news is if you want to truly change this and have scenario (1) every day, you can.


In this article, I will explain how the wealthy manage their network, and will outline what you need to start doing now to eventually have the right attraction powers. This will not be an overnight fix, it will take time, but with effort, you will transform your life for the better.


How The Wealthy Manage Their Network And Attract Wealth


In my previous article, I mentioned and I quote:


“…the Wealthy do not discriminate who they network with, they are personable, charming, and very helpful to everyone around them…”


While I truly believe that, I want to emphasize today that the wealthy value some people more than others. And those they value more are those who bring cheer, calm, serenity, peace and more importantly, those who bring opportunities for them to become wealthier.


The rest of the people who bring them down, are managed, compartmentalized, and sometimes avoided entirely.


How Do You Know Who To Value More?


Everyone starts without the right discernment of the people they should value more and who to avoid. For me, it is very simple. I value those who help me create more wealth, while avoid those who don’t. Of course, easier said than done because there are those who will act like they are there to help you, but in the end are there to hurt you, intentionally or not.


So before you can objectively filter and manage your network properly, you will first need help, a solid and positive support system to know who in your network you should avoid, and who you should really keep and value.


The Wealthy Have A Solid and Positive Support System


What is a positive support system? It is a person, or group of persons who help you keep your life focused on what you want to achieve, and more importantly, why you want to achieve it. More importantly, your support system is usually more successful than you, and more experienced than you. A solid support system will help you filter the people in your network properly.


Without a positive support system, you will find it difficult to stay focused on what is right and what is wrong, life becomes fuzzy and unclear if the people who reach out to you are there to help you, or to hurt you.


In my case, my positive support system would be my wife and my family. Now, and this will pain some of you when you read this, not all spouses and family make the best positive support system in the beginning. I say this because not all spouses and family have the necessary experience nor success to really help you achieve more, sometimes, they don’t even realize that they are pulling you down rather than up.


If this is the case for you, then find another support system first that will help you achieve true wealth while continuing to educate, love and transform your spouse and family to become your solid and positive support system. To know if you have the right support system, this should be your guide:


Your “Support system”, whatever or whoever it may be, will give you the strength and clarity of mind and heart to decide who to say “NO” to and avoid like the plague and who to say “YES” to and value more in your network. If your support system does not give you that, keep looking until you find it.


Rebuild Your Network To Attract Wealth, Not Distractions.


Once you have your support system in place, rebuild your network. With enough time, and patience, the next time someone calls you over the phone, or emails you or “bumps” into you in the grocery store (or wherever you may be), they will bring you cheer, calm, serenity, peace and more often than not, opportunities for you (and them) to become wealthier!


Until the next article, good luck and God bless.


Author Box:

Mark So is a fervent businessman, Investor and educator.  He is the Chairman and CEO of Businessmaker Academy—a business, finance and corporate training center.  He is the founder and Chief Forex Trainer of Forex Club Asia, A Trading club of Forex Traders across Asia. He is also the Co-Founder of HR Club Philippines, a network of professional HR practitioners in the Philippines.  Mark, together with his loving wife also created a website dedicated to teaching people how to make money run after you. A sought after speaker for business, marketing, currency trading and investing, You may email your comments and questions to: or call the office at 6874445 / 6873416 / 6874645 for a schedule of his seminars

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